REDHEAD ON A RAMPAGE!!!
Feb. 25th, 2005 11:38 amI have just found out just how much I hate being called derogatory names - like 'sweets'. Backstory: The four of us (Casey, Adam, Jared, and myself) decided we wanted to have a game evening all by ourselves. A while into it, someone Adam vaguely knows, Tim, stopped by. We offered to let him play a round of DDR. He decided to stay until around until a bit ago. He kept annoying us the entire evening more and more until I finally exploded after he called both Casey and myself 'chicks' and called me 'sweets'. To me, it was very derogatory and disrespectful. We asked him to leave, then told him bluntly to leave, after which he said I didn't scare him. We then threw his things in the hall and Jared sat in front of the door. As he was leaving, he said something about 'what is with chicks'. He then was threatening to call public safety because we wouldn't let him back in. About then is when a public safety officer came by. He asked what was going on, and we said that we had asked Tim to leave and he wouldn't, and that he was harrassing me. The officer asked if I wanted to file a complaint, and I said I just wanted him to leave. The officer made him sweat a bit, then let him go. Turns out that he was in big trouble from last year - one more report and he could be kicked out. I do consider what he was saying and doing as harrassment, but don't think he'll bug us again since he can't afford getting in trouble. I can't remember the last time I was so nervous, angry, and upset all at one time without PMSing. I'm still a bit upset, but we've all been talking a bit and I think I'll be okay. I just don't understand how someone can be so stupid as too keep doing and saying things that people have been asking him to stop doing, insulting them while they play, and acting like they did something wrong after he harrasses them. Feeling a bit better since a little time has passed.
from steve
Date: 2005-02-27 05:44 pm (UTC)Sounds like an eventful evening. I think u should have filed that report that would have taught him, and then noone would have to deal with that. I dont understand why ppl think its ok to harase ppl. oh well. I hope you guys had an ok time besides that intrusion. see ya later. Steve-o Out!
there are those who call him ... tim
Date: 2005-03-01 12:11 am (UTC)small penis!!!
Date: 2005-03-01 01:50 am (UTC)